The Truth About Why You’re Not Getting Organised (And How to Fix It)
Let’s be honest — getting organised sounds simple. But when you’re staring at piles of clutter, endless to-do lists, or a home that just won’t “flow,” it can feel completely overwhelming.
If you’ve ever told yourself:
“I just need more time.”
“I don’t know where to start.”
“I’ve tried before and failed…”
You're not alone.
And here's the truth: being disorganised is rarely about laziness. It's usually a sign that something deeper is going on.
So why aren’t you getting organised?
Here are three common (and totally human) reasons — and what to do about them.
1. You’re Emotionally Attached to Stuff
Whether it's guilt, nostalgia, or “what if I need this someday,” emotional clutter is powerful. It’s hard to let go of items tied to our identity, memories, or sense of security.
Fix it: Start small. Choose one low-stakes category (like socks or mugs) and practice letting go without pressure. You're building your “decluttering muscle” — not aiming for perfection.
2. You’re Waiting for the Perfect Time
Spoiler: it doesn’t exist. Waiting for the kids to grow up, the next holiday, or the “right mood” means you stay stuck.
Fix it: Progress beats perfection. Even 15 minutes a day adds up. Try setting a timer, choosing one drawer or shelf, and simply starting. You don’t need to finish — you just need to begin.
3. You Don’t Have the Right Systems in Place
If everything gets messy again within days, it’s probably not you — it’s the system. Organisation isn’t about tidying once; it’s about creating routines and storage solutions that actually work for your life.
Fix it: Ask yourself: Does this item have a home? If not, that’s your sign to create one. Use baskets, labels, and zones to make maintaining order easier.
Here's the Good News
You don’t need to do it all alone. With the right support, systems, and a clear starting point, it becomes not only doable — but actually enjoyable.
If you’re tired of the clutter cycle, I’d love to help.
✨ Need a gentle nudge?
Check out this resource:
Be More With Less – 10 Simple Ways to Start Decluttering
Perfect for easing into the process with confidence.
